Some men go through three main phases before entering into a serious relationship. The first phase is infatuation, this being the time when the man is enthralled at the idea of finding a woman and is in a state of bliss at the prospect of spending time together. The second phase involves his thought process in which he is deciding whether he is truly ready for a serious relationship. This phase can prove to be most perplexing and misinterpreted if a woman does not understand the complexity of this phase. If a woman can understand phase two, she can then take steps, allowing it to transgress naturally into phase three. Phase three, of course, is a strong, solid and committed relationship. 

When the thrill of meeting someone new is dwindling and it appears that it is time to take a step in the direction of a more serious relationship, some men panic. Although they may desire a secure, safe and loving relationship, at some point a man can begin to display puzzling behavior.. If a woman is in a relationship and the man is in this phase, it is extremely important to be aware of the warning signs and then learn what can be done to aid in his comfort of accepting a serious, committed relationship. 

They say that a young woman is spoiled and the older woman doesn't need anyone to spoil them because they usually spoil themselves because of the income that some of these older women are bringing home. They usually bring home the bacon, while in power of themselves. Now, some of these young women out here are doing nothing with their lives and not working and still looking for a man to take care of them. These young women are what you call high maintenance and the older woman is very independent and can take care of themselves where they don't need anyone or any man.