They say that a young woman is spoiled and the older woman doesn't need anyone to spoil them because they usually spoil themselves because of the income that some of these older women are bringing usually bring home the bacon, while in power of themselves. Now, some of these young women are doing nothing with their lives and not working and still looking for a man to take care of them. These young women are what you call high maintenance and the older woman is and can take care of themselves where they don't need anyone or any man.